CHILD

EACH OF US WAS A CHILD IN OUR LIFE. CHILDREN ARE THE BEST AND HAPPIEST FORMS OF THE HUMAN LIFE. EVERYONE LOVES THEM, EVERYONE CARES FOR THEM, THEY ARE ALWAYS HAPPY, THEY DONT HAVE TO FOLLOW THE SOCIETAL NORMS, HAVE NO FEAR, DO WHAT THEY WANT, ARE PURE, DONT LIE.
A HUMAN IS NOT A CHILD BY HIS AGE RATHER BY HIS HEART AND SOUL. EVERYONE HAS A CHILD INSIDE HIM/HER. SOME ARE ABLE TO KEEP THIS CHILD ALIVE THROUGH OUT THEIR LIFE BUT SOME SEE THIS CHILD DYING DURING THEIR LIFE. THERE IS NO DEFINED TIME AS WHEN THIS CHILD DIES, IT MIGHT BE VERY EARLY, VERY LATE OR NEVER. LIVING WITH THIS CHILD THROUGHT THE LIFE MAKES LIFE VERY SIMPLE AND HAPPY. THERE IS ALWAYS AN EXCITEMENT WHILE LIVING WITH THIS CHILD. BUT WHEN WE SEE THIS CHILD DYING IT HURTS, IT HURTS A LOT. WE FEEL THE SAME AS WHEN WE SEE ANY OTHER CHILD DYING IN FRONT OF OUR EYES, IT PAINS. I CANT SAY ABOUT EVERYONE BUT MOST OF US DO EXPERIENCE THE FEELING AND ARE ABLE TO IDENTIFY IT. IT’S THIS TIME WHEN YOU ARE IN THE NO MAN'S LAND. NEITHER YOU ARE A CHILD NOR GROWN UP. WE AT THAT TIME RESONATE BETWEEN THE TWO PERSONALITIES. DYING OF THIS CHILD IS NOT SOMETHING THAT FINISHES WITH A FLASH IT TAKES VERY LONG. YOU ACTUALLY LIVE FOR A SUBSTANTIAL PERIOD IN THE NO MAN'S LAND. SOMETIMES, WHEN IN THIS LAND YOU BECOME HAPPY AND CHILD IN YOU WAKES UP BUT OTHER TIMES THAT BLEEDING CHILD IS SLEEPING AND YOU ARE A GROWN UP.
I DONT SAY THAT GROWING UP IS A NEGATIVE PHENOMENON BUT THE DEATH OF CHILD IN US IS VERY NEGATIVE THING BECAUSE OUR CHILD IS WHAT MAKES US DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS, IT IS OUR IDENTITY. WHEN WE START GETTING MECHANICAL AND ACT AS PER THE NORMS AND REQUIREMNETS OF THIS SO CALLED CIVILISED SOCIETY WE LOOSE OUR ORIGINALITY. WHY IS IT ALWAYS SAID THAT EVERY CHILD IS SPECIAL WHY NOT EVERY GROWN UP IS SPECIAL. WE SAY THAT ALL CHILDREN ARE SAME, BUT IF WE SEE THEN ALL CHILDREN ARE IN SAME STATE RATHER THAN BEING SAME. EACH CHILD IS UNIQUE. ON CONTRARY THE MATURE AND GROWN UPS ARE ALL SAME BECAUSE THEY BEHAVE IN THE SAME EXPECTED WAYS, THEY LIVE BY THE RULES, THEY WORRY MORE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT THEM.A GROWN UP IS JEALOUS SEEING OTHERS HAPPY BUT A CHILD IS HAPPY IF HE/SHE SEES SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY. THE GROWN UPS ARE HAPPY IF SOMEONE IS IN PAIN BUT CHILD IS QUITE SAD IF HE/SHE SEES A SAD FACE. THE GROWN UPS ALWAYS PLAN THEIR FUTURE AND IN THIS THEY FORGET THEIR PRESENT AND LATER REGRET ABOUT THE PAST BUT CHILDREN DONT THINK ABOUT FUTURE AND JUST LIVE THEIR PRESENT THAT EVENTUALLY MAKE THEIR FUTURE FULL OF HAPPINESS.
WHY DONT WE REALISE THE IMPORTANCE OF THIS CHILD IN US. WE ARE CONTINUOUSLY EVOLVING TOWARDS THE HUMANS WHO ARE KILLNG THIS CHILD IN THEM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. WE TELL KIDS TO DO WELL AT STUDIES SO AS TO BECOME DOCTORS, ENGINEERS, LAWYERS, MANAGERS ETC. WE ARE SNATCHING THEIR RIGHT OF BEING A CHILD FROM THEM. WHY DONT WE UNDERSTAND THAT IT’S THIS CHILD IN US WHO WILL KEEP US HAPPY AND OURSELF. SO ALWAYS TRY TO KEEP THE CHILD THAT YOU WERE BORN WITH. YOU CAME WITH THAT CHILD IN THIS WORLD AND WHEN YOU GO BACK FROM THIS WORLD GO WITH THAT CHILD THEN ONLY YOU WILL FEEL COMPLETE.
AND AT LAST JUST TO KEEP YOU THINKING, WHICH ONE OF THE TWO WOULD YOU SAY IS A BETTER WAY TO LIVE – BEING A CHILD WITH A MAN INSIDE OR BEING A MAN WITH A CHILD INSIDE?